From heavy blankets to oatly oat milk, from severance to kids’ mispronunciations, from unplanned dilly-dallying to having a lot of friends… I tried to rank 35 things that matter to me last year.

& thoughts on expectations, power of masculinity vs. femininity, & happiness as a choice

Feature Image: double rainbow after a long day of clouds and rain.

Spoiler Alert: I don’t think it is Happiness.

I share my annual birthday reflections, thoughts & learnings upon turning 31 years old.

Turning 30 in a house I co-own with the people I love (one of whom, I birthed!) and a tech company I co-run that embraces the voices of women and POC (rare for this bro-y industry), feels good.